my girlfriend is pushing me to have sex but we're only 14 should i just do it or tell her no

You have a whole life ahead of you, is it really worth doing when you have plans in the future?

to b honest i think that sex waz meant 4 married people i think u should tell to wait till u guys r married :)

If you aren't ready for sex, then don't do it. Talk to your girlfriend, tell her you feeling pressured and you're not comfortable.

Well if you're ready for it, go for it. And if you're not, then don't. Simple as. Don't let her force you into doing something you don't want to.

i think you probably need a new gf or something o_o

Say no!(you're gonna regret it if you say yes)

NO. Do not do that until you are ready. Ask her to respect your wishes and wait. Some are ready at 14. I lost it at 14. But I felt ready and wanted to. You will regret it like nobody's biz if you do.

This is completely your decision, you shouldn't let her push you do anything. Do it only if you feel ready and willing, and if you're not explain it to her. If she cares about you she'll understand.

Absolutely do NOT "just do it." You, and ONLY you, can decide when you are ready to have sex, and if it doesn't feel right, then whatever you do, do NOT do it. I know you're probably eager to please her, and worried about what she'll do if you continue to say no, but if she really cares about you, she'll respect your wishes. If she doesn't respect them, then she wasn't worth losing your virginity anyways.

Please, continue to say no to anyone who pressures you until YOU are ready to say yes, without any pressure.

I'm 17 and I'm to young u have all ur life for that so tell her no and if she's leaves then she's not the one for u

its up 2 u i had sex when i was 9 i know im a whore n a slut but i was ready i wanted 2 if u want 2 have sex then u should if u dont tell her u r not ready n if she dumps u its fine shes not worth it or if she keeps pushing u dump her

Omg. Tell her no.

if your ready bro go for it if not then dont do it

what's up with young peoples these days?
Uh...too young...you have time to be adult so many years! Be young when you can!
That's why I am still happy fucking virgin and will be very long time because I wanna be young!
Sorry about my rant...

do it do it do it

I think that you should wait at least one / two years and then do it.

Look you are very young still but in the end it's really up to you, never let anyone push you into anything your not ready for... just remember that.

Tell her you're not ready, and you're too young. if she still pushes you then tell her to stop or you'll leave her because if she really cares about you she'll wait till you're ready. Also you should sit down and talk to you're parents about this!

My friend lost hers at 13 but she was sure. Dont fling. You need to think of her and what comes to mind. If it is I will follow her through hell and back then use protection.

Not a great gf(no offense).

She should respect that you are not ready, and wait.

your not ready...ask your self this are you ready to see a her push a baby out of her vagina, watch the head rip it in half and hear her scream and cry in totall agony...if the answer is no, then you are not ready

I just wanted to say that I'm happy to find this question and all the totally cool answers before i messed up. My mom told me that the girl will let me know what I'm ready, but I got so scared. So thankyou so much for saying good things about advice. It helps me a lot.