How hard is it for you to stay a virgin if you still are one?

Yes!!! it Hard

I'm 16, it's not that hard... Sometimes I want it very much, but then I remember that I don't want to have sex with someone who would drop me after that, I need right person.
Why do you want to stay a virgin at 19?

There are times when I would want to lose my virginity because I feel like Im not moving ahead...but other times...I want it to be perfect with someone I really love & care about. I don't want to lose my virginity to someone that just wants to take it away from me & say "Oh...I got into that girls pants.."

im now 16 and there r times wen i have the urge to have sex but like others that have said the same thing i want my first time to be a beautiful experience and some guys at this age don't seem mature enough for that (at least the ones i know) so id rather wait cause there's nothing rushing me to do it! ^-^

VERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT ELSE DO U WANT FRM ME, THT ALL I THINK ABOUT DUH!

if your not desperate it wont be very hard

I am 21 and sometimes it sure it is hard because you hear how all your friends are doing it and how you seem like the only person in the world who is still a virgin. But in time you know that you made the right decision by waiting.

Well...sometimes it's a little hard because I have these..desires, you know. But overall it's simple for me. There's not one guy in my town who I'd want to 'do it' with, and the only thing I'm feeling due to my peers' becoming sexually active is simple curiosity. So, it's not hard for me.

That is a very good thing that you are not pressured, actually its a relief to hear it. But my advice is, Yes, stay a virgin! It possesses a value that can not be explained with common words. The right man for you would truely appriciate it, and trust me, if he knows that you saved it only for him, it can be one of those special little things... be wise, and be in control, if you are not than what are you? Just a helpful word of advice.

About your desires, its normal to have them, but just be pacient, once you loose it, you can't get it back. So if you give it up to the wrong boy to soon... well, regret can be too much. And the price you pay, is You Lost your Virginity to an Asshole!!!!!! For the Life of You protect this with youir heart and soul! Don't ever let it happen, and evenually you'll know the Right moment, when it is best and right for you. I hope this helped.

Yeah, it's hard, not because of pressure or anything, cuz I don't have a lot of close friends in real life (i.e., not on Fanpop). But I'm very attracted to men, and all I can think about half the time is how much I want to sleep with someone. But so far, thank God, I haven't given myself away yet.

I so badly want to lose my virginity! I don't think that i will ever meet the love of my life, and if i did i'll probably be thirty three or something and i don't want to lose my virginity in my thirties! So if a boy wants to have sex with me right now and i don't care how young i am, i would do it. Coz it is all i can think about and my feelings drive me crazy!

i cant say... i have sex (xD) and im 16.

your not alone.im 16 and most of my friends hav doe it,but not me.im the "innocent"one of all my friends.its not that hard.i just try not to think of it.but i do sometimes.

and never feel embaressed or alone in this situation