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do you think i made the right choice? (PLEASE HELP!)

I had sex a few times now but im only 15.me and my boyfriend do use protection, but i feel unsure i think sex is fun and cheers me up. i do want to have sex more but i need others opinions.
 cuteinblack6 posted over a year ago
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Jillywinkles said:
Personally I feel 15 is a little young, but each person is different, and if you are comfortable with it then more power to you. And you don't really need others' opinions. Sex is your decision, and it's your life. Don't let others influence you, just be mature about it and use your own judgement.

Keep using protection and you'll be fine.
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posted over a year ago 
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I think this is very good advice. I just want to add a question-- Are you asking for other people's opinion because you don't know if you're ready, to validate a choice you've already made, or for some other reason? It's always great to ask yourself WHY you ask questions (particularly about choices that have already been made) just as much asking the question. But as far as I'm concerned, if you're safe, have regular checkups, and take care of yourself, then you'll be OK. I recommend visiting a gynocologist. Or go to the clinic at your high school-- this is a confidential matter and your parents won't find out, if you're worried about that.
Cinders posted over a year ago
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Safe sex a the time is good
JailynnLuv posted over a year ago
nafela said:
in this situation it dosnt matter about peoples opinions. it only matters if you think your ready for it and if you are then go for it. just make sure your doing it the right way and make sure your doing it with someone you love and trust. make sure that this person isnt pressuring you to do enything you dont want to do. dont do it just because you think your making this person happy do it because its what you want.
i hope my advice will help tc
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posted over a year ago 
loves-oth said:
Like the comments above, i think you are in an okay situation.
i was 15 when i lost my virginity, and i was in a relationship.
if you are unsure, speak to your boyfriend about it.
why do you feel unsure? that's the main question. sex is perfectly natural, and as long as you are using contraception and are sure you are ready, there is no need to feel you are doing wrong.

you should maybe speak to your doctor or gp about going on the contraceptive pill? it may give you more reassurance, if that is what you are looking for.
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posted over a year ago 
kuhleau said:
15 is young but by no means very young. If you are enjoying it and have a genuine relationship with your partner then keep going at your pace.

The pill is convenient but has a lot of flaws. It does not protect 100%. It does not protect from STDs.

Go on the pill by all means but stay with the condoms until your boyfriend at the time is a mature adult and not a pin head pumped dick sex addict like all guys under 25.

Be careful over the next 10 years, but enjoy yourself aswell
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johnhetfield666 said:
i am 16 but still a virgin so idk
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posted over a year ago 
iluvtigers said:
well if you are unsure if you want sex, then dont do it for a little while and see how you feel. also see how your boyfriend reacts. if hes fine with not having sex then stay with him and have sex again when youre ready. if he keeps pressuring you to have sex, then he doesnt appreciate you for who you are, he just wants to score.
remember this wont be the ONLY decent guy, so take your personal matters no matter how slow you want. along the road you will meet a few nice guys who will respect your decisions.
just remember its YOUR body and YOUR life and that it will hurt you if you get pregnant more than him.
one step at a time :) good luck
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posted over a year ago 
cA_iNen11 said:
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Orange_Crush said:
I had sex for the first time when I was 13 so if your comfortable with it it's fine I mean mine was with a girl....., but I find girls to be more understanding then guys, but thats just me
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posted over a year ago 
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omg 13 is young!!!
stephmfan215 posted over a year ago
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im 13 and am still afraid to have a bf, but im a nervous wreck so thats just me
wolfgirl1217 posted over a year ago
shomill said:
I think you're a little young, and if you're doing it for "fun" and not for love, then you're doing it for the wrong reason.
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posted over a year ago 
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If you just want fun, try masturbating.
shomill posted over a year ago
BlackAngel369 said:
if ur questioning if u should or not is a sign to me that u should stop! Sex needs to b 100% ok with you and if ur bf don't lik tht, then u have learned somthing bout who he is. im 17 and i had just resistly asked myself the same question (and i don't have a bf to love when i do it) so its up to u, just remeber ur body ur rules.
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stephmfan215 said:
i think that its okay wat ur doing. im 15 and ive had it... just lik once for real and then another kinda half way. if u think that this is ok and ur boyfriend thinks it is 2 and ur being safe then its fine.

and it is funnn!! ;)
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posted over a year ago 
ShadowFangrl said:
:) Do what you feel is right. BUT, think, H.E.L.P.

How would this affect your life?
Exciting? If you're happy, the go for it.
Like it or not, listen to other peoples opinions.
Parents, would they agree to what you are doing?

I have a sex problem myself ^^'

I petend to have sex with a picture of Shadow the Hedgehog in bed, but that's my problem.
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