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How do you feel about underaged sex?

What do u think of ppl hvin sex at a younger age than said? N what do u think about teenagers gettin pregnent??
I no 1 of my friends, other friends is 12 n she has sex wiv her bf. I donno what 2 think of it but I would lyk 2 hear others oppinions.

Thnx in advance 2 every1 x x x
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im young and i think its ridiculace to have sex at the age of 12! ur friend is out of their mind. no offence or anything but think about it. that could ruin her life......
icebabe97 posted over a year ago
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yea
hotstuff59 posted over a year ago
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ya tht wat i thnk too Icebabe97
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 X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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June4 said:
Well, someone having sex at the age of 12 is not good and maybe not even wen ur 13, but it's better to have it when ur older and ready for the consequence that you'll have like getting pregnant. teenagers getting pregnant, that's their choice to get pregnant and it could be a mistake too, but at least ur older than 12. and good question Becky.
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posted over a year ago 
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Thnx. Jst wanted 2 hear other ppls thoughts on it. Thnx 4 answering :)) x x x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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ur welcome hun
June4 posted over a year ago
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a baby is not a mistake!
skibbles1234 posted over a year ago
Mrs-Grint said:
I think it's perfectly fine as long as; you know what your doing, love eachother, use a condom or some form of contraception and fully understand all the consequences of having sex. If your doing all of that, have sex, have lots and lots of sex! XD
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posted over a year ago 
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I COULDNT AGREE MORE!!
KatiiCullen94 posted over a year ago
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^wow
LoveforSeverus posted over a year ago
katiecain said:
Personally, I don't think it's right. Simply because looking back to when I was 13, 14, I knew there would be no way I would have been ready and neither would any of my friends. Many of my friends who lost their virginity underage have regretted it. But, you know, it's up to the individual.
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posted over a year ago 
lilys_love_12 said:
i will admit i had sex be for and i cried like a baby after. i thought i was ready but it turned out that i wasn't. i think ppl should wait till they get married. i sure do wish i waited to give that 1 thing to my hubby that i will get later in life. my bf i have is a v. and he wants me to take that from him but not now he said. he wants to w8 till we r married but i think im still 2 young to think of marrying and stuff. so yeah i think every 1 should w8 till they r married.
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posted over a year ago 
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oh yeah i was 14 too. and the guy and i meet on myspace and we only knew eachother for about 2 weeks and i let him come over and we were siting onmy bed maken out and welll.. 1thing led toanother.
lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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oh wow... do u regret becoming a mum at such ayoung age?? x x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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yes cose giving birth hurts! but thats okay it was well worth it. i love my baby boy. Evan is my sons name.
lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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Aawww that's so sweet ;) x x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
Hollestercutie said:
well i'm gonna be honest. i had sex when i was 14 and i thought it was fine. we were dateing for 8 mounths so i thought maybe it was the right time. today i still think i made the right choise. me and the guy broke up a year later and we dated other people.
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posted over a year ago 
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Aaww I'm sorry about that but thnx 4 being honist wiv me! X x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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Good for you! I'm sorry that you broke up, but you still think you made the right choice. You must have been extremely mature at fourteen.
Mrs-Grint posted over a year ago
Shepard14 said:
I am 14 years old, adn I think that underaged sex is not right. You should wait till you are married and can give that special thing to your husband. If you have sex as a teenager, be ready to face the consequences of maybe becoming a teenage mom. You DON'T want to live with regret.....I was raped earlier this year, thankfully, this guy came around the corner and punched him, then when the guy ran off,he helped me up and called the police giving them a full description of the guy. It was a horrible experience and I really don't want to live through it again....Not until I am old enough and married..so I can give myself to my hubby..
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posted over a year ago 
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OMG!! im ssooo sorry 2 hear about that! :(( is everything ok now??? n thnk u so much 4 answering. x x x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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im a teen mom!!! its easy!!! and her father and i love her to death! yeah him and i r broken up but we r good parents to our baby
lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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I never said I was a vigin....I'm not any more....
Shepard14 posted over a year ago
broadwaydj1993 said:
I have to say i disagree with it! I lost my virginity at a very young age... be with someone for a long time then maybe think about it. i think your friend is gonna come out messed up once they break up.... i know i was hurt to death. So plz dont have sex until you know your ready... trust me... youll know
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posted over a year ago 
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thnx 4 the help. x x x x x x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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no maybe idk
hotstuff59 posted over a year ago
TeamGomez said:
What do I think about underage sex? Its soo wrong! These poor girls are giving themselves up soo early on in life when they have soo many more years to grow and to find a loving boy who is actually amazing and worthy of their love and affection. I just wish they'd wait a while before jumping right into it with someone they THINK is their love but is really just a horny litlle shit! As for teen pregnancies, well i'm a teen mum myself. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at 17 (HEY 17 is perfectly normal age lol & yes we did use a condom but they're not always 100% full proof) and couldn't be more happier to lose it to him, he really is that great :) Anyway, back on topic .. With teenage pregnancies, I think that people should stop criticizing them because they need our help and support, now more than ever! This isn't just about the parents anymore, its about the unborn child. We need to encourage and and motivate these teen parents to be the best that they can be so that they can provide a loving and stable home for their baby!

BTW sorry if i offend anyone :)
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What do I think about underage sex? Its soo wrong! These poor girls are giving themselves up soo early on in life when they have soo many more years to grow and to find a loving boy who is actually amazing and worthy of their love and affection. I just wish they'd wait a while before jumping right into it with someone they THINK is their love but is really just a horny litlle shit! As for teen pregnancies, well i'm a teen mum myself. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at 17 (HEY 17 is perfectly normal age lol & yes we did use a condom but they're not always 100% full proof) and couldn't be more happier to lose it to him, he really is that great :) Anyway, back on topic .. With teenage pregnancies, I think that people should stop criticizing them because they need our help and support, now more than ever! This isn't just about the parents anymore, its about the unborn child. We need to encourage and and motivate these teen parents to be the best that they can be so that they can provide a loving and stable home for their baby!

BTW sorry if i offend anyone :)
posted over a year ago 
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Your son is very beautiful. ^^
sapherequeen posted over a year ago
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Thank you, i think so too :) haha
TeamGomez posted over a year ago
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Thank you :)
TeamGomez posted over a year ago
KatiiCullen94 said:
depends how underage you are
i was 14 and i DONT TAKE IT BACK!! i think if you feel ready.. like really ready,, and you understant the process and everything even the problems after it then have fun... but dont do it out of spit. LOVE THEM!!!

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posted over a year ago 
sapherequeen said:
Well, I have all kinds of feelings about that type of sex...

I, at first, think it's a huge risk. Because you never know where having sex at such a young age will take you (pregnancy? STD's? abusive relationships? etc.).

But then, I think it's not as bad as some may make it seem like. Sex is special, and most of the time, when it occurs, it's special. So whether you're underaged or not, it's still a fantastic experience.

But then I go down to the conclusion of seeing underaged sex as very wrong under a few circumstances; If the person is very young (Like twelve or thirteen-years-old), then I don't approve. Fourteen and fifteen, still wary about it. But sixteen and eighteen, I think it's perfectly fine as long as both partners play it safe.

Yeah, I have all kinds of thoughts about this (not as dirty as I just stated that sentence as!!!!)
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posted over a year ago 
sadie_kay said:
Having sex at a young age can lead to a lot of things that aren't meant for young teens. Like depression and pregnancy. I am 16 years old and I haven't had sex, not because I don't want to, just because of the fact that I am waiting to find the guy that is right for me. When you are young and fall in love with someone, you don't think anything can take that love away, and you have sex with them... But what happens when you get pregnant and he leaves you? Then you are left at a young age with a baby who doesn't have a father. There are a lot of things that a teenager should think about before going out and having sex with someone. Honestly, I don't have anything against young people having sex if they are ready. I just feel bad for those who have sex with a bunch of people because they don't feel complete. If you are ready, no one is stopping you, you just have to look at all of the different outcomes before you make a choice.
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sesshyswind said:
Pardon if this upsets or offends anyone, i can see that there is a lot of Pro-Go about under age sex going on here, so I just though I needed to add this... This is a Quote from an answer I made to a very similar question about a month ago.

"15 is Waaaaaay to young to lose your virgintiy! It is a precious thing. Don't give it away to the cute boy who tickles your fancy, or make you feel alright, for most likely he wont end up being the man you marry. and after that (if you do) you are allready used up. Don't be a slut! Modern culture encourages this too much, resist it with all your will, grace and dignity, and anyone who says different, well look at them, carefully. It is not an uncool thing to resist a boy! It just means that you are stronger than that, and know what is best for you! Its like saying no to drugs, it can make you feel good, but it rots a hole in your brain and other problems, sex is the same way, you can even become Pregnant! And at 15, 16 or even 17 or 18, is too young, live your life safe and resist."

I know this rant may sound a little harsh, but its true. I know I lost my virginity at 17, and of course I got pregant and had a kid, my daughter will be 13 in a month from now (years old not months, I'm 31), though I marvel over it with each passing day that it worked out okay for me. I truely feel that I an one of the lucky ones, because he could have turned out to either be the wrong boy for me, (when he seemed so right at the time), or ened up being a total Dick, leaving me with a kid to take care of on my own, which would SUCK!!!! Even now.

My advice to anyone is Wait! It'll be better for you in the long run. No need to rush into anything, you could get luckly, or you may not be, and you'll never turly know for sure if the decision you make was a good one, the right one or that you just plain went and TOTALY FUCKED UP!!! Your choice, but, please, do think about it, and make the right decision.

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posted over a year ago 
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Wow thnx. I also asked my mum about this she said she thinks it's wrong she lost her virginity at 16, left home at 17 got married at 19. She was married 4 9 yr cuz she said the guy jay wasn't rite n wasn't a gd person. She got divorced met my dad n became prgnant wiv me at 30. ( I think that a gd 2 hv a kid) n when I was 6 wks old my dad left us.. We wanted 2 after his dream job n he got it. Now I'm 13 I only get 2 c him a few days every yr. N it upsets me that he left my mum 2 look after me on her own when he was in his dream job. I respect my parents very much n mum said 2 me "wait 4 the rite person 2 come, n if they r they will wait 4 u" cuz she regrets everything that she did as a teen. I'm still upset wiv my dad that he left mum 4 this dream job rather than stay wiv his family n I was at the age of 2 I was diganoised wiv AD/HD n I was very surveir wiv it my mum didn't wrk n we rnt exacally rich but not poor either we struggle if it wasn't 4 my dad i donno what we would do........ Thnx so much 4 the help means alot :) x
X_MusicCrazy_X posted over a year ago
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Glad to help :)
sesshyswind posted over a year ago
shomill said:
I don't believe in it, and I certainly don't condone it, but if I had had the chance to do it, I probably would have, so I don't really want to put anyone down for it, either.
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posted over a year ago 
BlackAngel369 said:
Im 17 and i lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend; which at the time we had did it, we were only going out for a month. I felt ready but aft i was mad with myself for giving something so valable so soon. But still aft doing it i didnt feel any diff from when i still had my virginit so i soon moved on. I had sex with my boyfriend that i knew i didn't LOVE and thats what destroyed the relationship- o and the fact that i mite have been pregnant, but wasn't. Sex should be for marriage only, it messes things up in you and in the relationship if ur not. So KIDS of 14 and up should not play around with sex. But if u do, stop b4 u lost something, like yourself!
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posted over a year ago 
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good answer
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stephmfan215 said:
i think having sex at 12 is total bullshit. that's wrong. i think that having sex 2 young is just not right. 15 is the youngest i wud say, but u really need to be mature. i think that there shouldnt be an pregnant teens, since they should be safe anyway. i think that a pregnant teen is just a symbol of stupidity and irresponsiblness
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