if a kid starts to cry before on the first time you need to learn things about them and cheer them up by what they like to provent crying keep them ocupiedand happy show them your open to them and be kidish and firm make shure you you are there role model fowel the rules to show them they should to fowel the rules and have fun but remember 2 things not every kid will like you and dont be a stick up be you and fowwell rules AND SAFTY FIRST THATS THE IS INPORTANT AND REMEMBER ITS OK TO ASK QUESTIONS have fun baby sitting